Why do teens act the way they do? Many teens experience behavioral changes as they start to express their self-esteem and develop their own identities, which might appear strange and unpredictable to parents. Once incapable to tolerate being apart from you, your obedient, adorable child will no longer be within 20 yards of you and will respond to anything you say with a door slam or a roll of their eyes. Even though parents may find this upsetting, these behaviors are typical of an average adolescent.
On the other hand, a troubled teen demonstrates more than just the usual teenage problems in terms of behavior, emotions or learning. Drinking, drug usage, sex, violence, skipping school, self-harm, stealing and other illegal activities are among the at-risk behaviors they may engage in on a regular basis.
Alternatively, they could display signs of mental health issues such eating disorders, anxiety or sadness. Parents should be aware of which behaviors are common in teenage development and which could point to more significant issues, even though any repeatedly unacceptable behavior may reveal underlying issues.
I believe that working with problematic adolescents calls for a well-rounded strategy which includes both structure and sensitivity. It’s critical to determine the underlying factors influencing their behavior, whether they be trauma, mental health issues, or domestic difficulties.
Building trust may be greatly helped by listening to them without passing judgment and by providing a secure environment where they feel appreciated.
I think they may realize their potential and take a healthy route if their self-esteem is raised and they are given positive outlets, such as skill-building exercises or mentorship programs. Rehabilitating them and fostering their growth are more effective than punishment alone.
However, I also believe that structure is as important. They get a feeling of security and responsibility when clear boundaries and consistent consequences are established. However, because correctional facilities and unregulated programs can bring more harm than benefit, I oppose the incarceration of problematic kids in such settings. Rather than relying on punishment, I favor community-based solutions that focus on guidance and assistance.
After all, every teenager is unique, therefore the best way to support their accomplishments is to take a customized strategy that blends discipline with empathy.
