{"id":9291,"date":"2023-09-29T11:14:00","date_gmt":"2023-09-29T11:14:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thesouthtexan.com\/?p=9291"},"modified":"2023-09-29T22:44:09","modified_gmt":"2023-09-29T22:44:09","slug":"refusing-to-reclaim-rhetoric","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thesouthtexan.com\/index.php\/2023\/09\/29\/refusing-to-reclaim-rhetoric\/","title":{"rendered":"Refusing to reclaim rhetoric"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>&nbsp;We unfortunately live in a society that seems to never let women stand up for themselves. Sexist slurs are used to describe women the instant that they set boundaries or speak up.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Women will endure bullying daily allowing others to make jokes at their own expense, but can never ask to have the joke explained or repeated.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I recently experienced two women making false claims towards the character and actions of my peers and me. The comments were delivered in an open setting and under their breath.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I clearly heard what they said but asked them to repeat themselves directly to our faces. Only one person was brave enough to tell me what was said.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I decided to defend my character in a stern, yet factual matter, and was then called a sexist slur in return.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Women can never win, even against their own.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Being a woman is exhausting especially when people are watching you under a microscope.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I believe America Ferrera\u2019s powerful monologue in the \u201cBarbie\u201d movie, said it best in part:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cIt is literally impossible to be a woman. You have to be a boss, but you can\u2019t be mean. You have to lead, but you can\u2019t squash other people\u2019s ideas. You have to be a career woman but always look out for other people. You have to answer for men\u2019s bad behavior, which is insane, but if you point that out, you\u2019re accused of complaining.\u201c&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Many have argued that women should reclaim the sexist slur and while pop culture has seen the success with it, there are many ways reclaiming the slur will harm society.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We should not have to reclaim the term; people should stop using it as a hateful comment or stop using it in general.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Women do enough, they should not have to add reclaiming a slur to the list.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Women have enough to worry about already, such as having the rights to their own body.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I will never understand the need for unnecessary hate when they are simply trying their best to survive in a man\u2019s world.&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;We unfortunately live in a society that seems to never let women stand up for themselves. 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