Online dating: Is it worth it?

As we launch into a fresh semester we launch into new classes, jobs, friendships and even romances. Meeting new faces can be hard, especially now with the pandemic going on. For some of us, meeting people in person has always been a bit difficult but thanks to modern technology we have other popular options. 

With the creation of apps like Tinder and Bumble anyone of age can showcase themselves to the world around them simply through a device. These apps are primarily created with the intent to promote relationships, whether that’s romantic or platonic. 

However, this begs the question on everyone’s mind: Is online dating a viable option if wanting to hit it off with someone, or should we stick with traditional meet ups? 

Here’s the answer: Nothing is traditional. There’s no one way of meeting new people. I know plenty of people who have met their significant other through a screen and congrats to them because it seems to be going well, even more so than others who have met in person. 

On the other hand, I know plenty of people who have found nothing but trouble and disappointment using online dating apps. Apps, such as Tinder and Bumble, are just one big gambling game. You test your luck and go all in with the mindset of whatever happens, happens. When trying out online dating apps, my advice to you is to go in with zero expectations. 

Different people are there for different reasons. The same goes for “traditional” dating. People you meet in person could want different types of relationships than you do and that’s okay. If you really think about it, online dating could be seen as a way to pass time. Some of us get bored and what better way to cure your boredom than sign up for an app to talk to complete strangers – that’s somewhat a joke. To sum it up, is online dating worth it? Yes, as long as you jump into it with an open mind the same way you would in person. Who knows, maybe you’ll even find the love of your life.